things men should know about women

why do women cant get enough of clothes, shoes, bags, accesories...etc...?
its a natural thing for women to want to feel beautiful, hence all the things that they think can make them look better, and nicer. and its retail therapy that can make them (at least) happy (other than food and friends and boyf). dont tell me u dont like seeing women dressing up. and screw the "cinta itu buta" and "its the inside that matters not the look" crap.. admit it, looks matter too (at least in the beginning).

why do women have to be such control freaks?
fyi, the term control freak is suitable only for certain people only, not all women are control freaks but i bet its hard to find a girl who dont take most matters seriously and dont give a damn about almost everything. women want to feel secure and sure of things. so do understand if something u regard as simple, become unecessarily complicated bcoz of women

why do women say one thing, but actually means another?
ok i admit, that some women are straightforward therefore easier for you to handle right? but for the others they prefer to opt for subtlety. hoping that their other half would understand them (OTHER HALF bah... duhhh) and anyway sometimes they just dont want to hurt u guys knowing that the truth is not really what u want to hear.

why do women say themselves fat and ugly and a bitch and all those stuff, but when other people say the same thing about them, they freak out or they get all emo? and what do they expect us to say when they ask us if they are fat or not? or if they look good or not?
in answering the latter, i would guess that most women would want their other half to say that they are beautiful, pretty, this, that... because women like compliments. even if sometimes they dont show it, admit it, everyone feels at least a teeny bit flattered when people compliment them right? so guys, even when she's in her worst hair day, just tell her that to you, she's still pretty, she'll appreciate that. and, who doesnt feel offended when people say bad things about them? saying it ourselves is totally a different thing.

what do women want in a relationship?
overall, what women will want most in a relationship is commitment, honesty and communication. honestly without these i dont really think the relationship will last long (but then again, who am i to argue). but based on the examples that i have seen all around me, lack of one of the three things will not do for a good relationship. and oh, guys, if your woman have said that she doesnt mind u not doing all the romantic stuff, sometimes she will want to see the romantic side of u, she will want to do romantic stuffs once in a while, my point is, u cant always take literally what ur woman tell you. the most important thing is that us women sometimes dont speak out loud what we want so thats ur job to figure out what we want, its not that hard to figure out, mayb she already hinted or something :PPP (again, OTHER HALF bahhh)
i already give some hints kan sayang >0<

so far that is all i can think of, haha. any objections whatsoever? :P

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